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(I have received messages / e-mails from the youth many times, they say, brother, I can not stop watching pornography, I like reading about your Islamic texts, please write something about this, this article is dedicated to them. )
One of Satan's weapons is to nudge people to hell. Our original parents, Adam (peace be upon him) and the wind (ii) satan nude before leaving the Paradise. Allah says:
O Adamson. Do not let the devil tempt you - the way he brought your parents out of Paradise - he had them naked to show them their shame ... (Surah A'raaf 7:27)Satan's plot to nude people and go astray has not ended, but it has grown ever since the ages. And in the present age, Satan's satanic extreme levels have gained due to Internet pornography.
For that reason you should not see porn
Pornography makes humans humanly and physically balanced. Below are the 6 worst adverse consequences of the documentary. Next time when you want to watch your porn movie, these words will remind yourself.
1) Pornography teaches you the perverted definition of love: When you watch porn movie you become unknowingly unhappy, cruel, selfish person. Because, in public movies, people feel good, love, sadness, and joy are not shown to any feelings, only "peniteration" is shown. But in real life, you will love your partner, talk rumors, chat, and go around - all are an integral part of a healthy love life. The porn movie snatches away the feeling of love from your heart, destroys it. Porn movie lets you act in such a way that you start believing that the love name Penitrations. A survey in America shows that 56% of divorced couples have an addicted to husband or wife.
Many young people think - "I'm young now, I have not got married yet, now I see porn, after marriage I will stop seeing them". However, statistics are different - it is seen that those who are seen in young age become habituated, most of them can not even see porn after marriage. So - I have not been married yet, so let's see - it can not be an excuse to see.
2) Porn causes your human feelings to spoil: She teaches you girls not only men, but also enjoy things. Whenever you see a girl at the street and in the office-university, you do not think she has a life, she has hopes, there is a feeling of grief, joy, love, you just worry about this girl enjoying it. What to do? If a girl falls slippery in the street, you do not think whether she is suffering from pain or not, but you think that it is a peek-to-peek part of her body. A girl is able to see her honesty, talent and human qualities You judge him without judging him by shaping a particular place of his body. Porn movie teaches you that friends of the class, from the office colleagues, start a physical relationship with everyone - thus encourages you to build illicit relations. A survey in the United States found that 68% of the marriages on average were for online parasites.
3) Edge reduces your memory, prepares depression among you: Islam scholars have been saying from the very beginning - If you look at what God has forbidden, remembering remembrance, thinking ability decreases. Once al-Shafi'i forgot some verses of the Qur'an. When he asked his master Imam Malik about this, he said, "You may have seen something unlawful." So Allah has taken knowledge from you ". Imam al Shafi'i could not at first remember who he was eyeing. Later he realized - when he went to the market today, he saw a woman coming down from his vehicle. When he got up, a little cloth was raised on his ankle, and the eyes of Imam Shafei's eyes fell. Along with Imam Shafi'i, sincerely apologized to Allah, he pleaded for his sin. And after that Allah turned away the verses of the Qur'an forgotten him.
Psychologists have also researched that reducing the memory of porn people, reducing thinking, being undecided, depressed and separated from the family. Dr. Christine Leigh, a psychologist at the University of Duinberg-Essen University in Germany, researched the effect of watching pornography on 28 people aged 26. [13] He has researched - Short-term effects of watching them have reduced memory and reduced their ability to concentrate. Other studies have found long-term effects of depression as a result of depression, social failure and loneliness.
4) Can disable you: Studies have shown that you may lose your ability to get excited if watching additional porn videos. The reason for this is that today's films are being captured in high definition cameras, these cameras are shown so intensively and zoomed that you can not actually see your partner in this way, so do not be easily excited. Not only that, every porn movie brings with you new porn models, new locations and new stories. Your brain gets accustomed to this newness, something old can not make you easily excited. As a result, it may happen that you will not be excited to see your wife anymore. In some people this disorder is such that they can be excited only by watching porn movies, even with strong drugs like Viagra, they do not have any work. This problem is called erectile dysfunction and it is found in the research that those who start seeing porn (especially before the age of 12), the problem is among them.
However, it is hoped that the person with the erectile dysfunction can be able to be able again. Studies have shown that if a person does not see a three-month porn movie and does not have a girlfriend, then the brain returns to the previous pattern, so that he can be excited to see the girls outside the digital media. Consider - The ability of Brein's self to recover himself .
However, it is hoped that the person with the erectile dysfunction can be able to be able again. Studies have shown that if a person does not see a three-month porn movie and does not have a girlfriend, then the brain returns to the previous pattern, so that he can be excited to see the girls outside the digital media. Consider - What a great blessing from God that Braine himself is able to recover himself. If you keep yourself restrained for only three months after disobeying Allah, then Allah will restore you to the former state.
5) When you watch porn, you create prostate: Do you think those models have been modeled and they all came to the movies in their own right? Not at all. Many of them were brought to the shooting spot by showing lucrative jobs, free tours and various false temptations. Then, by showing greed for a lot of money, being portrayed in porn movies, dreaming of colored life. In America, for the amount of hours spent in ordinary work, the movie is given 20 times its cost per hour. The students of college-university read the names of the girls in the movie, and in the same way they become prostate.
People like to see the new porn models. And so the producers of porn movie bring new girls to the world of prestige by showing new temptations. Watching that girl laugh at porn and movies, you're drowning - you do not want to see her when you turn off the computer, but for that she can come to the next movie in front of you, but she has to stay as a prostitute. To meet the demand for the click of a new porn model, you are sitting in front of your computer. The porn movie producer is constantly getting new girls and supplying them. In this way, due to the seemingly insignificant view of this click, the horizons of the porn industry around the world are being felt, and due to its formation, the new girl is becoming a prostitute every day.
And the films that are secretly captured, how many girls have lost their lives, how many girls have committed suicide for them - they do not have any. Think - if someone does not watch the video captured on the camera, then do not make any of these videos, so the life of a girl would not have been lost for these videos.
6) Everything is recorded in the bureaucracy: Remember, you are sitting alone in front of a computer without seeing anyone else, but God is watching, and the angels are writing it in a clear texts. If God still does not expose your misdeeds to man - then understand that Allah is allowing you to repent. If you die without repentance, then everything will be presented in front of you, your parents, brothers, sisters, friends and friends will see your book. Ask yourself - can you face that shame of the day?
The way to get rid of porn addiction
So long said about the bad consequences of the pornography. And now I'm giving 4 tips to release addiction:
1) Do not look at any media of digital media: You see the cast that you see on a computer, or the model and filmstars on the TV - they all make thousands of dollars of surgery, makeup, exercise under the specialty, makeup shine each inch of their body. It makes people look attractive, appealing to the eyes. It has high-definition cameras, photoshop and the latest video editing software. As a result, the girls who you see in computers, on TV, fashion magazines, are perfect, perfect. Even if you want to have minutes after minutes, you can look at these perfect pictures for hours - there is no one to interrupt. However, no real life is perfect, and such pixel-by-pixel zooms can not be seen. So, digital media is no longer a reality, and the reality is not the same.
The more you look at the girls, the more dopamine your body is. You get excited when this hormone is released in a certain amount. When you see a new beautiful girl, you adjust your body in such a way that you need more dopamine to get excited next, because if you do not, then you will easily get excited. Even when you see an appealing model ad on the TV, or see pictures of your beautiful girlfriend on Facebook - your dopamine is still released. The more you look at the girls in digital media - seeing a girl in the real world or your wife will be the only way you can get excited. And so - look at as little as possible to girls in digital media.
2) If you have to look, look at the face: if women can not be seen at all, then the best. But, the reality is that in the world we live in now, we can not look at women without looking at them, without matching them. To keep up with the world you will need to see the news - girls, girls and college-university students are studying with friends, girls in the office, often want to see a new movie, there are women in it - what to do in such a situation? Throw everything away and become a monk? No, life will not do this way. What to do is that whenever you need to look at a girl, look directly at her face, not on any particular part of the body. And look at your motive while looking at it, look at it with no physical desire to look at it, look at it with a feeling of sorrow and anger-a person with a feeling of love.
When an outsider speaks with your mother, wife, sister, or daughter, you look forward to such a beautifully-respected behavior from her, where you expect her eyes to be, in the case of another girl your eyes also Take control. Remember, when you are looking at a girl's wish for her unknowingly, you are violating her rights.
3) Do not leave any prayers: The most important advice - Do not leave Salat for one of the few days. And if you are not a devotee - so start 5 prayers from today. Because, Allah said, "Surely Salat keeps people away from indecency and wickedness" (Sura Ankabut 29:45). In the same way as in the same light, there is no light and darkness, so there will not be prayers and pornography simultaneously in the same heart. Once Sahabara said to the Messenger of Allah (saw) - such a fellow has been involved in various kinds of bad deeds. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, asked: Is he still praying? Everyone said - Yes, fall. The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "If he continues to pray, the prayer will surely bring him back from a bad day."
4) Keep regular fasting fast: Fasting is a slope, which helps us to stay away from sin. When we fast, our stomach is hungry, hungry stomach weakens the body, and our desires also weaken. Therefore, in order to control the desire, the Prophet (peace be upon him) has advised us to keep a lot of fasting beyond Ramadan.
What will be the routine routine? For this Sunnah has several guideline [14]. The easiest - fasting three days (13th, 14th and 15th) of the month of the month is much harder than this - fasting every Monday and Thursday, and fasting like Dawood (A) every week - one day later One day Also the following days of the year are very special for fasting -
Six months after the month of Ramadan Shawwal If you keep these fasting after Ramadan, it is possible to observe fasting throughout the year.
Fasting on the day of Arafat or the 9th of the month of Yilhajj (ie the day before the Eid al-Adha) - which is for the sins of the previous and next year.
Fasting of the first 10 days of the month of Yilhajj - which is the most favorite of the worship of Allah.
Fasting on the 10th day of Ashura or Mahraam - which pays the past one year's sins. With this, it is better to keep fast on 9th day.
The last word: Remember - God can forgive even more sins than you can, as long as you can sin, God can forgive you more than that, but the condition is that you have to continue your efforts. Get strong commitment - and never see them again. If you ever fall in the trap of the devil, then after performing two rak'ah prayers after bathing, repent to Allah, do not delay. Then pledge twice the firmness - and never see, you will not be the slave of Satan, Satan will rather be your slave. Do not give up on anything, nothing is done, Satan has not left his devil, you will not give up on your faith. Not only is the success of reaching the destination, but the journey to reach the destination is also a success.
Allah Almighty says: (Paradise has been prepared) for those who do any indecency or oppress themselves, remember God and pray for forgiveness for their sins. Who will forgive sins except God? (Surah Al-Imran 3: 135)
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